Poems dating your best friend
However, in order to make a long-lasting, happy marriage, you have to be sexually attracted to them.
After all, you will be sleeping with only them for the rest of your life.
So, you want to make sure you actually like them, right? That’s why whenever you interview an old couple who have been together for decades, they usually mention something about their spouse being their best friend. Now, I’m not talking about your childhood best friend who is the same gender as you–unless you’re into that, in that case go for it—but I’m talking about someone who has come into your life later and is now your best friend.
Oh, and they just so happen to be your preferred gender for a life-long partner.
My best friend and I—who is a male—have an ongoing joke that if we both fail at finding our “true love” in the next ten years, we’ll get married.
The real question comes when you start to think about if you’re “in love” with them. Sometimes you can be in love with your best friend without even realizing it. If you realize this sooner rather than later, you should marry your best friend. If you know you can trust them this way, you should marry them. Futures have to align with the person you could potentially end up marrying.The one that will be there for us through the rest of our life stages.The one that will give half of themselves, forever.I personally don’t think that two people have to have similar religious views in order to make a marriage work. If you two talk about the way you want to raise your kids and you agree with about 80% of what they’re saying, you should marry them.As long as those views are understood and accepted long before the big ceremony, you’re in the clear. And I mean really argue about the important things. You have to have similar styles of parenting if you’re going to marry someone. [Read: 11 ways to know if both of you are ready to have kids] #8 They bring out different sides of you.